Prostate massage is one of the most fun and intimate ways to experience intense pleasure. To massage the prostate, you insert a finger or toy inside the anus, and apply pressure to the backside of the prostate gland, which can be felt through the front wall of the rectum.
When it comes to locating the gland, fingers have an advantage over toys. The giver can feel where they are going, which makes it easier to make out the shape of the prostate. And fingers are very dexterous, so a skillful, practiced giver of prostate massage can have really fine control over the intensity, speed, and stroke they are using.
Since prostate massage works great with just one or two fingers, newcomers to anal penetration usually find that it’s an easy way to start. And even experienced prostate players often like to start off with massage before ramping up to larger objects.
It’s also really easy to combine with a hand job or oral sex. There are plenty of choices for positions, so you have a lot of options. Try synchronizing your prostate massage with strokes on his penis, or have him touch himself while you focus on his prostate.
It’s also possible to massage the prostate through the perineum, the area between the penis and the anus. The sensation is more diffuse since there’s more tissue in the way. Think of it as the difference between massaging someone’s back when they’re wearing a sweater versus bare skin. But combining prostate massage through anal penetration and through the perineum can be an out-of-this-world experience!
It’s often easier to reach someone else’s prostate than to reach your own, although if you are flexible enough, give it a try. But if you can’t quite manage it, don’t worry. This is where prostate toys come in handy!
There are lots of different massage techniques you can try. We give you all the info you need to make it sexy and fun, including detailed descriptions, diagrams, tips for making the most of your prostate massage, and more. Pick up a copy of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure and get ready for an amazing time!