The Aneros Peridise: A Great Way to Explore Anal Penetration

It’s not often that we see a truly innovative product, but the folks at Aneros have another winner! The Peridise is a fairly slim anal toy with an unusual design. Its shape causes the anus to relax much more than almost any other toy by stimulating involuntary peristaltic contractions. Peristalsis is the rhythmic contraction of …

Think Harnesses Are Just For Women? Check Out The Deuce Harness For Men!

A Harness for Men? Most folks assume that the only people wearing strap-on dildos are women and transgender men. And while it’s true that those are probably the most likely harness users, cisgender men can also wear harnesses. But until SpareParts HardWear came out with the Deuce, there weren’t many options. Yes, some guys managed …

Upcoming Workshop in Seattle! Hitting the Spot: Prostate Play & G-spot Pleasure

I’m always amazed at how many ways our culture tries to separate sexual response based on gender. Of course, there are many differences in how male and female sexuality work, but we have a lot more in common with folks of other genders than you might realize. That’s because our sexual organs come from the …

Three Great Lubricants for Prostate Massage & Prostate Milking

Prostate massage and prostate milking are two of the most popular ways to bring your partner some amazing pleasure. Your fingers are incredibly sensitive to every small change in your lover’s response and there are a lot of different techniques you can use to tease and arouse. Plus, you can combine your favorite finger moves …

A Big Thanks To Our Amazing Sponsors

We’re really excited to get the word out about prostate play and we couldn’t do it without our fantastic sponsors. They’re as dedicated as we are to helping you have the best sex possible and they make some of the best toys and other products for prostate pleasure and pegging. Working with them is truly …

We Had a Great Time At Our Launch Party At Good Vibrations!

Our book launch at Good Vibrations last night was a perfect way to get our tour off to a great start! We had over 40 people show up, which just goes to show how much prostate play is getting folks as excited as we are about it. Aislinn & I started off talking about the …

Our Book Has Arrived!

I’m thrilled to announce that The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure has arrived! After talking with over 200 men and their partners, asking urologists and medical experts for feedback, finding the best tips and toys for prostate fun, and more conversation about how to describe the many techniques we  heard about, Aislinn and I are …

Our Interview on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino

If you missed our interview yesterday on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino, here’s your chance to listen in! We talked about how to ask your partner to try prostate play, some favorite massage techniques, what to do if your sweetie thinks of anal play as domination (and you don’t), our upcoming tour, and much …

Looking For A Realistic Dildo? Check out VixSkin

Plenty of folks like realistic dildos for their prostate play, and there are lots of options out there. Maybe it’s the extra bit of life-like appearance that makes the fantasy work. Maybe it’s the shape of the head as it slides across the prostate. But when it comes to finding a dildo that looks and …

How Pegging Can Help Save The World

It’s a cliche that before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes, but that’s because there’s a lot of truth to that statement.  After all, once you’ve experienced something from another person’s perspective, it’s much easier to imagine what it’s like for them. That’s one reason why I think pegging can …